The changes in a new family
Synopsis
Are there enough hours in the day for everyone to find their happy place?
Phoebe Dashwood and Sam Hendrie welcome their beautiful baby daughter into their already busy lives. With motherhood now top of Phoebe’s to-do list alongside being a vet, and running an animal sanctuary there’s no time for day dreaming.
As Phoebe battles sleepless nights, extra challenges arise in the shape of abandoned African Pygmy Hedgehogs, stolen cats, and a worrying trend to keep wildlife as pets.
Meanwhile, Sam is selflessly left holding a baby and when a familiar face from the past returns old feelings are tested. With so many plates spinning Sam worries something may get broken – he just hopes it won’t be their relationship.
Can parenthood, a relationship, and a professional life be successfully juggled and is it really everpossible to have it all?
My review
Phoebe Dashwood and Sam Hendrie have just fallen in love with their baby girl. Both their hearts expanded in a way they didn’t know it couldn’t. With Lily now around, Phoebe’s life is even fuller than before, because looking after a baby, being a vet, running an animal sanctuary for sure is filling her days! But when the sleepless nights kick in, and Phoebe feels that she cannot keep control of all the chaos, especially as Phoebe thinks that she is the only one feeling this way. However, what Phoebe doesn’t know, is that Sam is struggling too with all the changes in their lives. And with new challenges coming their way, and old faces from the past resurfacing, with the new dynamics in this new family, are Phoebe and Sam strong enough to fight all the battles as a united front?
Puddleduck Farm is the kind of place that throughout the series kept growing on me. Of course I loved it from the first book, but my love and admiration for the place and the people living and working there, only kept on growing. How could I not, when there is so much love present?
So obviously, with this latest book, I was eager to return to a place that I love, with people that I love! I just couldn’t wait to read what this wonderful author had in store for Phoebe and Sam.
Perhaps while you are reading this book yourself, you will feel that this isn’t the happiest book of the series, but for me, it felt like the most realistic, more emotional one.
Because we see a lovely new family, Phoebe, Sam and Lily, trying to find their feet with the new dynamics. And where often in books, the arrival of a baby is a blissful event, we see with Phoebe and Sam how things aren’t always rainbows and unicorns.
Phoebe and Sam are the kind of people that always want to do the right thing, they both always want to help out, and in this book, we see how there are several occasions where it comes at their own cost. Especially with Phoebe we see how she has a lot or even too many eggs in her basket, and she feels like she is losing it all.
And her desire to help, to be there for everyone, is absolutely admirable, but with changed circumstances, Phoebe needs to learn that things cannot be same as they were before. It also broke my heart, that while she is an amazing mother to baby Lily, there are still some unfinished business causing her even more distress.
And then there is Sam… he obviously is still the amazing man we got to know throughout the book, and there isn’t any doubt at all that he is truly devoted to Phoebe and Lily. There isn’t anything he wouldn’t do for the most important women in his life.
But somehow, Sam lost himself. And seeing that, truly broke my heart… With wanting to do good for everyone else, he has lost doing what *he* loves doing the most. And don’t see this as Sam being a selfish man, because he is anything but! But don’t we all need an escape, an outlet, to digest everything that is happening, a way to clear your mind? And exactly that seems that Sam has lost. And while it may be something silly, in fact it is something that we all need, to get a clear head, to have some *you – time* -, that will make able for you to fight the world again.
And it broke my heart reading how Phoebe and Sam, this power couple, aren’t able to talk about their struggles to each other. On the other hand, it was sweet in a way; because they don’t want to burden each other with their inner turmoil.
This shows that communication is everything in a relationship, no matter how difficult the subjects may be. Because you never know how someone else is feeling, and that perhaps some feelings are exactly the same.
Phoebe and Sam also learn that a problem shared is a problem halved. And not only sharing it between them, but also with all the people around them, that love them deeply. Asking for help is nothing to be embarrassed about, especially in a new situation.
Now, it may seem that this is a very sark story, filled with heartbreak, doubts, troubles and turmoil. And yes, there may be several struggles. But all those negatives are erased by the love that is palpable from each page. There is no doubt at all that all the characters love each other, in all the relationships. And even when mistakes are made, in moments of ‘weakness’, there may be some anger, but whatever has been done, for whatever reasons, there is an understanding of the ‘why’ it was done, and nothing the cloak of love cannot cover.
Phoebe and Sam are as always surrounded by characters that also have all the best of intentions. People that want to help in any way, perhaps even in absurd ways (looking right at you, Maggie 😊). That made me laugh in this book, made me smile, made my heart feel just warmer than it was feeling before.
We see how a whole community comes together, how no issue is too much handle. A community that works as one, no matter how different each individual is. Throughout the series, all the characters have grown a lot, but in this book, we see exactly how much each has grown, and how far they have come. Not only has their own knowledge expanded, but people have come out of their shell, have become more confident, and have become an important link in the amazing chain that Puddleduck Farm is.
Della Galton wrote an amazing, heartwarming story, showing us how lives change, how priorities change, but love is always prevailing. This is a realistic book, showing us the struggles of parenthood, but also the importance of communication, and unselfish meaning of love. Phoebe and Sam may have their own little family now with sweet Lily, but in fact, they have already been part of an amazing family that reside or live around Puddleduck Farm!



























