Everybody needs a year of saying no!
Synopsis
Lottie Wentworth has never been more pleased to hear Big Ben ring in the new year and wave goodbye to The Year of Saying Yes!
When a long-term relationship ended, her best friend’s scheme to get Lottie back in the swing of things seemed like a good idea. She’s kept her promise to Jess to see it through but, as a lover of the quiet life, Lottie couldn’t be happier to say hello to a brand new year – The Year of Saying No!
Unfortunately, the one thing she still seems unable to say no to is the crush she has on her best client and now friend, Army veteran, Seb Marshall. But she’s working on it, and with rescue dog Humphrey at her side, she knows that she’ll manage just fine.
Lottie’s decision to stop trying to please everyone has brought a sense of relief beyond what she had expected. Her actions and determination have also begun to send ripples throughout her life and those closest to her, bringing about changes none of them could have expected.
But will all those changes be for the good?
My review
After a year of saying yes to everything, forced by her best friend, Lottie decides that this year, she is going to say no instead!
The idea of saying yes was an idea to get her life back on track and discover new things. But Lottie now only wants to do what she wants, so she is determined of saying no if she is not convinced.
Army veteran Seb is Lottie’s client and friend, but also her secret crush. When he hears about her resolution, at first he is skeptical. But when Lottie explains that she not saying no to everything, but only to things she really doesn’t want to do, he is supporting her as a true friend is supposed to do.
Is saying no the solution to get your life back on track? Or is it only a way of missing opportunities?
Immediately, from the first sentence, I liked Lottie! She had a rough period, when her relationship ended. And ‘forced’ of participating in a year of saying yes, now she does what SHE want. So she starts saying no and she even takes a dog!
But there was a HUGE frustrating part, whenever it concerns Seb…
Seb is this great man, having literally suffered a lot during his time in the Army. But he and Lottie go from a client -relationship to becoming real friends. And there is even potential to more, IF THEY WERE JUST NOT SO DAMN STUBBORN!!!
On one hand, I get the doubts Lottie has, because if it all went wrong, she would lose not only her best client, but also a great friend. And is it all worth it?
But on the other hand, they would be so perfect together!!!
Lottie realizes though the story what she really wants, and slowly stands more up for herself. Initially she fears a little the reaction but her confidence grows and she puts herself first, even if it will pain her…
I always find it admirable when someone gets out of her comfort zone and does what she really wants. I am myself a people pleaser, always doing things I even don’t like, just to help people. So reading about Lottie, standing up for herself, will hopefully work inspiring for me, and be more like Lottie!
This story worked for me inspirational, as it shows that being ‘selfish’ isn’t always a bad thing. It’s worse doing things you really don’t want to do just to please someone.
But even if I got frustrated here and there, I found myself smiling and cheering for Lottie (and Seb).
A beautiful, funny story with a strong message!
























