Sharing a house with your friends, nothing can go wrong, right?
Synopsis
We’ve got the balance all wrong. Instead of living with our partners, struggling to do everything by ourselves and only seeing each other now and then, we should do it the other way round. We should live together and see them now and then.
Erica knows her suggestion sounds extreme, but when her nanny leaves without notice, she’s extremely desperate. Polly and Louise aren’t convinced, but when circumstances force them to move into Polly’s enormous but run-down house, they have to admit life’s much easier when the childcare and work is shared.
At first, communal living seems like the answer to their prayers – childcare on tap, rotas for cleaning and someone always available to cook dinner (no more last-minute pizza delivery!). But over time, resentment starts to grow as they judge each other’s parenting styles and bicker over cleaning, cooking and whose turn it is to buy toilet rolls.
And as one woman has her head turned by a handsome colleague, one resorts to spying on her husband and another fights to keep a dark secret, they need each other more than ever. But can Polly, Louise and Erica keep their friendship and relationships strong? Or will their perfect mumtopia fall apart?
Essential reading for anyone fed up with never-ending housework/homeschooling/preparing healthy meals that their kids reject … Fans of Why Mummy Drinks, Has Anyone Seen My Sex Life? and Beth O’Leary won’t want to miss this one!
My review
When Erica finds herself suddenly without a nanny, she is desperate to find a solution. So the solution she comes up with is, sharing a house together with her 2 friends Polly and Louisa.
She thinks that the three of them together can find the perfect balance of cooking, looking after the children and work.
Polly and Louisa are not really interested initially, but slowly the possibilities are the trigger to give it a chance.
But living together is not as easy as each woman has her own problems, and finding the perfect balance with the other women is not so easy as it seems. Each woman has a own way of handling problems and staying under the same roof is a recipe for disaster.
The idea of living together with friends, made me frown a bit. Of course, your friends are people you like. But spending days and days together, well, it was obvious to me that things would clash someday somehow…
Each character is so different, so it’s a given that there would be irritations coming out. And there are always people taking advantage in a way or another from other people.
Erica is so focused on her job, she is not seeing how her relationship is going for the worse, and that she is not a very present mother..
Polly is carrying a dark secret around, making her being very recluse.
And Louise is being very insecure, and even starts investigating her own husband.
These characters could have been in their own book, as their stories and relationships (in all forms) are so complicated. But being together in one and the same book, makes this a beautiful mash-up!
Being at the house together, they have to find a way of co-living. But so different from each other, it’ hard to find a common ground.
The more they are together, the more they realize they have to change to make it possible to maintain their friendship, but also the relationships with other people.
The beauty of this story is, that no matter how different they are, in time of need, they are all there for each other. They accepts each other’s faults and help out when needed.
And when secrets are in the open, there is no judgement only compassion and help.
Real friends stick to each other, and even if sometimes there are huge clashes, their love for each other prevail and their bond only bigger!


























