Never go to the wedding of your ex…
Synopsis
Divorced, Re-wedded. Survived….
Lucie Marshal is absolutely furious! How did she go from being a successful wife and mother to divorced, teetering on bankruptcy, and barely speaking to her grown-up daughter? Even worse, she’s just heard that her moronic ex-husband Miles is marrying a much younger woman in an influencer-style wedding in France #blessed #theone
Lucie will absolutely NOT be going. To hell with Miles, his new teeth, new hair and new wife! She’s perfectly fine…In fact, Lucie feels lost and angry almost all of the time. Just what happened to her younger, freer wild child self, who used to live life to the full?
But then pregnant daughter Zoe needs a lift… and eccentric nephew Deva needs a lift too and now Lucie has somehow agreed to drive her Dad’s beloved old Jag all the way across France to take them to her ex-husband’s wedding.
With a pitstop in Paris, a breakdown, unexpected passengers, and miles of open road, all set to Deva’s showtunes soundtrack – could this be the journey Lucie needs to find a way back to herself?
My review
Lucie cannot believe her eyes… while her divorce from Miles left her struggling on every possible account, she just received an invite from him. Not just any kind of invite, but an invite to his wedding. Lucie isn’t a resentful woman, but how can Miles afford an over – the – top wedding in France, while she can barely pay off her credit cards bills? Of course Lucie is not going to France, she wouldn’t even dream about it. But with her elderly father mushing her, and her daughter needing a way to get to France, Lucie has no other option to borrow her father’s old Jag, and also have her eccentric nephew Deva as a passenger and head off to France… But the trip won’t be as straightforward as Lucie may believe, because the relationship with her heavily pregnant daughter Zoe is rather strained. And to say that Lucie doesn’t know Deva that well, is an understatement… With more than just one detour and more than just one bump in the road, will they make it to the wedding in one piece, literally and figuratively speaking?
When a marriage falls apart, I can understand how it can tear your life into tiny pieces. It’s never a joyous moment, and when it ends badly, of course there is some resentment. But in Lucie’s case, the divorce means more than just the end of her marriage to Miles, as his lies has brought her financial troubles. So of course I could understand not only her resentment but also her anger, as she had to adapt to a complete different kind of lifestyle.
I am not saying that Lucie is a superficial woman, because she truly isn’t. But in a marriage, you are a team. There is reason that in the vows you say ‘for better or for worse’, because as a team you work together on whatever comes. Lucie is angry because Miles left her struggling, disrupting even the relationship with Zoe and now he is marrying again. Lucie doesn’t want Miles back, not at all, but I was in her corner, flabbergasted seeing how well Miles is doing, lavishing around, with a fancy wedding ceremony in France.
Despite her feelings towards Miles, I liked Lucie. It truly warmed my heart to read how Lucie visits her father, making the best of the remaining moments, as losing him is just a matter of time. Saying that Lucie is a worrier, is taking it lightly, as Lucie worries about everything: her father, the situation with her daughter Zoe, money and the list can go on. But that is also the nature of the ‘beast’…
But of course, if Lucie would stick to her idea and not head off to France, we wouldn’t have this book, would we? 😊
Even if it’s against her own desires, I knew that the trip to France would do Lucie good. Well, not only Lucie, but Zoe and Deva too. Because this book isn’t only about Lucie, but it is also helping Zoe and Deva with their own lives and decisions – to – be – made.
The trio couldn’t be more different from each other, or being on different stages of lives. While Lucie has life experience and it made her more wary of everything, Zoe is on the verge on motherhood, but with a rather complicated relationship with the father of her baby. And we are not talking about the strained relationship between Lucie and Zoe… And then there is Deva, living in a world of his own, stuck to routines yet with an amazing passion for everything that is Chanel.
Their journey to France quickly turns into something much more than just arriving on time at the wedding. Because their distance is palpable at the start of it. But slowly, being all in this small space together, they start to talk. And not only talk, but also actually hear and understand each other. Lucie, Zoe and Deva grow so close during their journey, that it truly warmed my heart. They may be very different from each other, but the love that already was there, and also grows, was just wonderful to read.
They also have several unexpected adventures on their journey, making the wariness make room for compassion and care. Their journey also allows them to let go some of the grudges and also allows their real selves to come out.
And best of it all, we see mainly Lucie change from this wary and too careful woman into a woman ready for something new in her life, but also a woman standing up for herself.
I enjoyed reading this book, showing us that perhaps a weird invite can be what brings back the fire in ourselves. There is a lot of laughter and funny moments in this book, but the laughter never took away the light from the real message in this book: that no matter who you are, you are more than good enough as you are. And that no matter how your life turned, it is never to late to take matter in your own hands, and that it’s never too late to start a new chapter in your life.





























