Being a mum is never easy, no matter the age of the child(ren)
Synopsis
Whatever the question, the answer is wine!
They’ve swapped the dark and lonely baby days for school gate chaos, but Aisha, Sophy and Mel are discovering that there are new parenting pitfalls just waiting for them…
Influencer Sophy, is trying to keep on top of home and work life but is finding it all a bit tough! Everyone thinks she’s living her best life, but the pressure to maintain perfection at the school gates when all she wants to do is cry, is taking its toll on Sophy.
Aisha doesn’t know what to do with all her spare time now her twins are at school. Maybe it’s time to focus on herself and the dreams she’s put on hold? But when her mum suddenly begins to feel unwell, Aisha has to rethink everything.
And when Mel is offered a chance to live her dream, she grabs it with both hands. But there’s a catch – notably, her ex-boyfriend who makes it clear that he wants another chance to prove he the one she should be with.
Can the three mums navigate this new stage of motherhood together and keep their friendship and their sanity? Or could life be about to change for them all over again?
My review
Even now that their children are going to school, friend Sophy, Aisha and Mel learn that the dark nights have been swapped into school gate chaos.
Sophy’s career as an influencer may be thriving, but behind the scenes she is struggling with finding the perfect balance between work and family. And even if she has found the most caring man to stand by her side, nobody sees her struggles, or does Sophy dare to open up about it.
With the twins now at school Aisha doesn’t know what to do with all her sudden free time now. Has the time finally come to chase her dreams? But will her girlfriend, who suddenly is becoming more and more distant and even keeping secrets from Aisha, support her? And what about Aisha’s mother, who is feeling unwell suddenly?
And then there is Mel, who never regretted the choices she made in her life. Suddenly she is offered a chance of a lifetime, on a cruise of all places! But when she learns that the offer came because of an ex – boyfriend, it makes her rethink of the past. And when the ex – boyfriend himself makes it clear that he hasn’t forgotten her…
Going from the 3AM shattered mum’s club to the 6PM frazzled mums’ club, these three women learn that motherhood, friendship and partnership is always a work in progress, but where will they next decisions and choices take them now?
Well, I always enjoy catching up with characters whom we have met previously and have spent hours together, reading their stories!
Because after the ‘The 3AM Shattered Mums’ Club’, I for sure wanted to know how life would go for these three friends who have met accidently but were exactly what they needed!
I have to be honest, this wasn’t always an easy book to read. Not that there were bits in it that I didn’t like, but this book is so real, even painfully real at moments.
And while I can imagine how wonderful it can be to be a parent, I can also imagine how difficult it can be.
Sophy for sure is the perfect example of it. At first sight, she may seem to have it all, but we also see rather quickly as a reader that there is something wrong. And it saddened me that somehow Sophy couldn’t confide about her struggles and her fears to those close to her.
It even angered me somehow, because society has so many high standards for people, making us feel inadequate at moments.
But who hasn’t ever had a moment of doubt, fear, or angst? And why shouldn’t we be talking about it? There is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of having those feelings, and you can be certain of it that once you open up, you will discover that you are not the only one feeling that way!
We also see in this book the desire to chase our dreams, but doubting about them anyway. And that is for sure Aisha. Now that the twins are older, and Aisha now has more time, why shouldn’t she pursue her dream?
But whether it’s typical for women or not, Aisha is having doubts about it. Yes, she has the talent, but is *now* the good time? And what if it turns out to be a failure?
Yet sometimes we have to dare to take that step, and just do it. It’s better to have failed than not having tied at all.
Aisha is not only looking at the prospect of fulfilling her dreams unfortunately. Because there has shifted something in her relationship, making her even more afraid.
Again perhaps typical, or even more accurate, recognizable in my case, Aisha is afraid to talk about the elephant in the room.
While we all know it’s best to know the truth, but the hurt and pain it would cost, is it worth it?
And then there is the looking back at the past. Haven’t we all wondered what would have happened if we made a different decision at one point in our lives? Perhaps not that we regret the lives we have now, but that ominous ‘what if’…
That is exactly what is happening to Mel. She has the opportunity of a lifetime, only to discover her
ex – boyfriend is behind it.
Maybe her behaviour on the cruise was the one that disappointed me the most, because it somehow seemed the most selfish one?
But on the other hand, meeting up with your ex, whom you always had a soft spot for, wouldn’t it turn everyone into a giggling teenager/ young woman again?
However, this gives also the opportunity to Mel to rethink about her choices and her past, making her wonder if the choices she once made, would be the same choices she would make now?
A blast from the past is perhaps the perfect opportunity to count your blessings and let you be grateful for all the growth you have made in the previous years.
The author in this book shows us that life is always a rollercoaster. When you have passed one obstacle, it doesn’t mean you have reached the finish line. A new phase in your life will bring new obstacles, new challenges.
But a new phase in your life doesn’t mean that you have to do it all on your own. Because the friendships built on the most difficult moments of your life, are also the strongest ones. And those friends are always there for you, no matter how dark things may get, or no matter how many doubts you are having.
This is for sure a book that makes you stop and think about your own life. And no matter how difficult things are going at one point, there is always a bright light at the end of the tunnel, making you appreciate once again everything you have, everything you have fought for and everyone you have in your life.


























