When opening an old time capsule is a real eye-opener
Synopsis
Becca Burnside isn’t sure where it all went wrong. How did she end up single in her forties, with the highlight of her weekend being a trip to Big Asda with her mum and the only chance of cuddles coming from her dog?
It’s fair to say that Becca’s life isn’t quite where she’d hoped it would be. She already knew that, deep down, but when she finds the time capsule she and her friends made as teenagers and remembers the hopes and dreams sixteen-year-old Becki (with an i) had for the future, she knows she has to do something, and fast.
Refusing to be controlled by her hot flushes and Unexplained Waves of Sadness, Becca is determined to turn things around – for Becki’s sake. But what will it take to prove there’s life in the old girl yet?
My review
You can say a lot about Becca Burnside, but you cannot exactly say that she is living the life being in her forties. As a divorcee, she doesn’t really comes out of the house, she isn’t in a relationship with anyone, her twins are away studying, and beside her best friend Niamh, she has the most contact with her own mother.
It’s only when she learns that the mother of her former best friend Laura has passed, that something changes in Becca. It’s after all that when someone is gone, you start to think about your own life, and regrets. With the rekindling of the lost friendship, and the find of an old time capsule made with Niamh and Laura, that Becca understands that she has to make a change, for sixteen – year – old Becki (as she called herself back then).
But between hot flushes and Unexplained Waves of Sadness, can that change truly happen?
I have read several stories with main characters older than myself. And in the cases in the past, o course there were obvious differences, but in this book, the difference between Becca and myself were way more obvious.
And I mean this in a good, way, because what Becca is going through, is in that aspect way more realistic, as life isn’t always rainbows and unicorns.
I think that many women in Becca’s situation will recognize themselves. Well, to be honest, in a few I could even recognize myself! 😊
When we were teenagers ourselves, didn’t we all think we would change the world and that our parents were always in the wrong? And how many of our big dreams have we actually achieved in retrospect?
But also it’s true that sometimes friendships end and pride and stubbornness stay in the way of bonding all over again. And it’s only when something heartbreaking happens, that pride and stubbornness don’t matter anymore…
Perhaps it isn’t easy to regain that same friendship again, but with baby steps nothing is ever truly lost.
Sometimes we also need a good kick in the you – know – what to realize that in truth, you aren’t living your life at the fullest, but you are just standing still. And that is what happens with Becca opening the time capsule. She realizes that she hasn’t achieved that much as Young Becki would think she would.
I found it heart – warming to read how strong old friendships can be, yet also how fragile they can be. Yet no matter what happens, a friend in time of need is a friend indeed.
And it was great to see how these three friends are able to give that nudge to each other, in not just remembering their dreams and friendship of the past, but also in motivating in looking ahead and not just give up in any way.
Perhaps this wasn’t exactly the book that I expected it to be, because I had in mind that this would be an over the top hilarious book, where I would wipe away the tears of my face as I would be laughing too hard. Because I know this author, and I always truly loved her books. But while this book for had some great laughs, it wasn’t always a world where everything goes right…
Yet that is also the beauty of the book, because the author portraits life just as it is. With friendships gone bad, hot flushes and Unexplained Waves of Sadness, these things are so recognizable for everyone, no matter what your age is (well, perhaps not the hot flushes, but you know what I mean 😊).
I truly enjoyed reading this book, as it made me think about how life can go, but also how the values that matters the most, can withstand everything, even the biggest fights.
I liked it how this amazing author is able to write about perhaps subjects that are still a bit taboo. For sure an example that more authors should follow!





























