When you are left on your own, you realize you are not alone
Synopsis
A story about friends, sisters, motherhood and starting again – one day at a time…
Stella fell in love with Simon hard and fast. He was everything she wanted in a husband, and he seemed to feel the same way about her. More than a decade of marriage later, life is sweet. They have three much-wanted children, a successful business, and a comfortable London home. What more could Stella possibly want?
But then, out of the blue, Simon is gone. Vanished. No one knows where he’s gone or why.
Now Stella, with the help of her friends and family, has topick up the pieces of her and her children’s life, all the while wondering what she missed. Was her husband who he said he was, and can she trust her own memories of their life together?
Helen McGinn’s latest novel is a love story to friendship, sisters, motherhood and starting again – one day at a time. Perfect for fans of Elizabeth Noble, Cathy Kelly and JoJo Moyes.
My review
When Stella met Simon, she wasn’t expecting to get married so fast and having children. But now, a decade later, her life with Simon and their three children couldn’t be more perfect, especially knowing that their own business is a successful one.
So when out of the blue Simon decides to walk out of the family and literally vanishes, Stella doesn’t know what to do.
With the help of her family and her friends, slowly Stella manages to pick of the pieces of her and her children’s lives. But no matter how things are getting back on track, she cannot stop wondering if she missed any sign. And if Simon could so easily walk away from the family he desired so much, did Stella truly know her husband?
We know from the start that things will take a bad turn for Stella. But from only reading the blurb I had so many questions I hoped I would get rather fast an answer to them.
Because it is just so difficult to grasp the fact that someone would just walk away from a perfect marriage and his loving family.
So initially I thought that while everything seemed picture perfect, there must have been some serious problems.
When Simon just walked out, after a ridiculous argument – if we can even call it that – I was just left flabbergasted. Okay, he doesn’t like confrontation, but if you are not happy in your marriage, talk about it, find a solution, get a divorce. There are so many ‘normal’ options you can chose from, do anything except just walking away without ever getting back in touch!
So yeah, it’s obvious that from the start I disliked Simon, and that feeling only grew stronger as more was revealed…
But this is not a story about walking away from your family, it is about how to get back on track with your life after a shock.
Stella obviously isn’t having an easy time, her whole life is turned upside down, and where she first was part of a team, is now facing everything on her own.
I hated the fact that Stella followed Simon in his wishes, in getting married quickly, having soon after children, and even if she had so many happy moments, now has to face everything on her own.
After a time of grieving, I admired how she managed to find a way to move on. And how she realizes that hiding yourself, while you did nothing wrong, is not the best solution. Her husband is a d*ckhead, he is the one who should feel ashamed.
So seeing how Stella has a whole team on her side, from her sister to her best friends, truly made me feel happy for her. Especially when we know that not everyone agreed with the choices she made with Simon.
And that trip to Florence, while it was hard for her to leave her children behind (always in capable hands, no worries!), it was exactly what Stella needed to recharge her own batteries. This also shows us how she puts her children’s happiness before her own, disregarding even what she needs. But that is just what an amazing mother does.
Add the fact that while it could have been easy to turn the children against Simon, by speaking badly about him, she knows that no matter what, and no matter what his reasons were, he stills remains the father of her children.
Seeing also how resilient those children were, shows us to never underestimate them, no matter what age they are. They understand things much better than we realize. And even by doing small, little things, they show their support, help and love.
Stella is on a double mission in this story, namely moving on with her life without Simon, but also discovering where Simon is and why he left.
Discovering more about Simon and his actions, truly shocked me even more than expected. And like I said, the more discoveries were made, the more I hated the guy. And even near the end of the book, I despised the man!
I understood the desperation Stella was feeling initially, but I especially admired the slowly growing feeling of hope that was growing inside Stella.
While initially everything was a tragedy, Stella learns that even if her husband abandoned their family, she has so many people she can rely on. Family and friends are only one call or one text away and they don’t hesitate to drop anything they were doing when help is needed.
And that is what stuck with me, family and real friends are invaluable in your life. Even at your lowest, loneliest moment, they will stand by your side and lift you up again. And that sometimes losing someone is the best thing that could happen, because you gain so much instead.




























